Do you keep your child at a distance from your partner ? whom you both love ? if so ,why ???

is it somekind of somekind of subconscientious jealousy, or do you want your child to love you more for some bizzarre reason beyond explanation and consultation ,or is it simply because you cannot face the fact that you hate your partner and cannot show it to your child ,or do you want your child to be like you and nothing like your partner, is it one-up-manship ?or something else , or are there other elements that cannot be explained as to why ?...... i want to hear your real life story if you have or are having the same or simmilar kind of spark as to what i am talking about here , from the heart of hearts xxxxxxxxxxxxx